Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Designer Handbags: Top 5 Selection

I know this is the second post on designer bags within a month, but I just can't help myself to share with you on this again! Just adore to the designs and styles. I know that some of these selection are not the latest release, more so these designer brands that I'm going to recommend here might tends to be pricey too. But if you are a true fashion buff and love to have at least one if not more designer handbags in your collection, then please read on.

Cole Haan Brown Leather 'Meteo' Saddle Bag
A classic Cole Haan bag will always be the quintessential piece for everyday style and ease.It contrast stitched naturally distressed leather with brasstone hardware and with rear file pocket and come with interior magnetic closure. Most importantly, the logo stamped flap closure with slip buckle and raised pocket underneath, so that it's actually show the value of this bag.


Others such as natural canvas lined with zip pocket, 2 raised patch pockets, and 2 pen holders in main compartment.


Bottega Veneta Nut Brown Woven Leather Messenger Bag
Bottega Veneta brings their signature woven leather style to the classic messenger bag model, with fold over flap top design, and approximately 40" fully adjustable thick leather shoulder strap with single prong belt buckle.

Inside with smooth leather interior with fabric lining and zip pocket. I am sure it's a fire hit except one consideration! A bit pricey!

Prada Black Nylon 'viaggio' Messenger Bag If you find Bottega Veneta Messenger bag is out of you budget, I will recommend this Prada Black Nylon Messenger Bag. In fact, Prada makes perfection a way of life with this superior men accessories. Inset top zip closure and come with full 32" adjustable nylon shoulder strap.

Of course, the signature black Prada nylon logo jacquard lining with zip pocket.

John Varvatos Dark Brown Calfskin Strip Leather 'Collapsible' Tote It is undeniable that John Varvatos has takes modern American men's accessories to a new level of sophistication and style.

It's stitched strip calfskin exterior with solid leather detailing and brasstone hardware, come with doubled adjustable straps at back exterior for additional carrying with front zip pocket.

It's top zip closure design with knotted leather pull tag.

Cole Haan Black Leather 'Sebastian' Newspaper Bag
This classic Sebastian Newspaper bag come with supple leather with silvertone hardware.

With rear file pocket and suede lined flap with logo stamp and file pocket underneath. This bag is come with fully lined with zip pocket, raised leather pocket and 3-pen holders in main compartment, which is really handy,practical and style.

So what do you think about all these bags?


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Monday, January 5, 2009

GOP Messaging Machine Cranks Up To Prepare For Partisan Congressional Session



“We’ve become a nation of whiners ….” — Phil Gramm on the McCain campaign trail in 2008

Watching the weekend political shows was a laugher again, and also hinting that this coming congressional session will be one of the most partisan, petty and politicized in about a decade – if not more so! Sen. Minority Leader, Mitch (the Bitch) McConnell did This Week with George Stephanopoulos, and the posturing and messaging are already in full bore, two weeks before Pres. Elect Barack Obama even gives the Oath!

Some of this stuff from Mitch “the Bitch”” is incredulous, like this gem: “I think everyone knows that half the American public is represented by a Republican senator.” Yes, he actually said that – can you believe it? ‘Everyone’ must be people in foreign countries with limited access to American media – or Americans who don’t have access to the news in any of its media.

Actually, he’s not being as ignorant as he appears to be with that statement. What this is, as we’ve observed over the Rove decade, is a concerted, uniform attempt (you will see this same ignorant soundbite repeated by all GOP folks with a media camera in their face) to “say it loudly enough and say it long enough to where it becomes the truth” – regardless of inaccuracy.

What we (and the Democratic Party, if they finally get a clue) must do is refute every hypocrisy, every inaccuracy and every attempt to divert attention via smokescreen. Such as this response to “half the public is represented by a Republican senator” garbage: First off, the GOP only has 41% of the elected Senators, no matter you slice it. Keep in mind that four years ago, when the GOP had 55% of the Senators and Dems had only 44%, the GOPers interpreted that as “a mandate” from the electorate. Mandate (not the Sen. Larry Craig “man date” variety, but as in power bestowed to act as the defacto representative). Now it’s the GOP with three fewer. Get a clue, “Bitch.”

Even if he wanted to whine about it being population instead of actual elected members, it still fails. If you take the estimated populations of each state, divide each into halves and award them to the senators elected in each, Democrats have roughly a 181,624,500 to 114,295,000 edge even without Sen. Al Franken being counted. That leaves Dems with 60.8% with the two independents who caucus with them, GOPs with 38.2% (and likely no more). Three out of five may be half to “Bitch” McConnell, but that’s pretty hinky ciphering there! That’s not the attention to detail I’d like from someone in charge of my money!

Ultimately though, this is what McConnell and all other Republicans are hoping for: bluffing their way into making themselves look bigger and stronger than they really are. It’s also an attempt to stomp on the gas, spin those wheels in the dust and create a smokescreen on what we’ve been experiencing under this Republican White House these past eight years. They actually expect to walk in as if brand new, looking innocent and clueless, in order to express mock outrage right off the bat. (Don’t look at their dirty hands in their pockets!)

It’s mind-blowing that after all of the past eight years – Wall Street scandals from Enron to AIG, no-bid contracts, the media/punditry/political browbeating of Dems wanting accountability, Rep. Craig Thomas holding a budget committee meeting while locking out the Democratic members of that committee, and the economic collapse and GOP giveaway to the banks – the GOP folks have zero contrition; nothing but hubris and bluster. Note to you GOPers: we don’t have ephemeral memories! Yeah … we remember….

And in their best feigned ‘bipartisanship’, The Mitch suggested, “I think, at least, hearings, and some kind of bipartisan considerations would be helpful.” Yeah, kinda like the GOP dominated senate did, right? Just demand an up-or-down vote, and point out the partisan obstructionism when that doesn’t occur! That’s the ticket!

Another McConnell gem: “Well, do we really want to create 20 percent of the jobs in the public sector? That would be 600,000 new government jobs.” Well, has anyone noticed that contrary to promises, his own President Bush-baby increased the size of government more than his Democratic predecessor, Clinton? Why suddenly question now, “Bitch?”

“We get lectured … all day long about moral values by people who have their own moral shortcomings.” — DNC Chairman, Howard Dean

In fact, it’s ironic as hell that suddenly the $750 billion stimulus package to rebuild America’s infrastructure is an issue! The Mitch apparently forgot about the $700 billion we just gave away to America’s banks to help their balance sheets (and produce absolutely nothing else.) Oh, don’t forget “Bitch”, you voted for that! No whining about needing to see the details then, no concern about where it was going … just voting for it. Hmm.
“What I worry about, George, here is the haste with which this may be done. This is an enormous bill. It could be close to a $1 trillion spending bill. … I don't think that they even seriously can defend … I don't think my friend Dick Durbin was defending doing this without bipartisan consideration.”

Well ya know, “Bitch”, you might want to get in touch with the other Dick – Cheney this time. Ask him about something called “unitary executive powers.” You’ve been living under it for seven years, and never uttered a peep about it – it was all good when it was Bush calling all shots. Well, let it be all good when it’s Obama too!

If it’s so bad having the Obama stimulus package, what is it that McConnell suggested we do instead, which will change the course we’ve been on and hopefully correct the nation’s course? Sayeth McConnell: “We could do a middle-class tax cut immediately…. Republicans, by and large, think tax relief is a great way to get money to people immediately.”

A couple thoughts on that: How is that different than Bush-baby (who was all about the tax cuts)? So, we’re going to follow along that same Bush-y road, eh “Bitch”? One last thought … what exactly will tax relief do for the unemployed, previously middle class? How does that get “money to people immediately”?

And when asked about seating Sen. Burris from Illinois in Obama’s vacant senate seat, McConnell predictably said: “I think there ought to be a special election in Illinois. … The process is so tainted … [it’s] the only way to clear the air and to have a successor chosen in Illinois that everybody can have confidence in.”

Yeah, tell that to all the GOP authorities in charge of selecting successors when their elected officials resign. We had one recently with Houston / Harris County’s Tax Assessor (a GOPer) who waited until he was re-elected before announcing he was resigning. The replacement was appointed by a County Judge (another GOPer) who was – you guessed it – appointed to the position when his predecessor was re-elected and then immediately resigned!

Chutzpah trumps ethics every time Sen. “Bitch,” you ought to know that!

Besides, I thought you were concerned about budgets and where tax money was going, right? Wouldn’t a special election … um … cost a few million dollars? Remember that concern about spending money that wasn’t necessary?

Bottom line, there wasn’t really any specific policy that was a problem for ol’ Mitch the Bitch. It was more about flexing his puny little muscle and (a la Oliver Twist) demanding “more.” When asked if there was going to be a litmus test on his support for specific Dem policies, The Mitch countered: “No, I'm not saying that. I'm saying we want to be a part of the process

“All we're suggesting, here, is that we be a part of the process. … Nine appropriation bills from last year that have already been vetted, been looked at by both Democrats and Republicans, could pass, on a largely bipartisan basis, very quickly … I think if they pursue a fair process, in the Senate at least, where fairness is typically the rule, and give both sides an opportunity to have input, to have it – a true bipartisan stamp – he's likely to get significant support.” (Note the operative phrase “likely to” – not “will get … support.”)

See the patterns yet? They just want to be “part of the process” and have “bipartisan fairness.” What a refreshingly new concept! It’s too bad we couldn’t have had that in the old Republican days, eh?

Repeat after me, “Bitch”: “The Democrats have a mandate … Democrats have a mandate … Democrats have a mandate ….”

“Cry, baby, cry.
Make your mother sigh.
She's old enough to know better,
So cry baby cry.” — Cry Baby Cry, the Beatles

Saturday, January 3, 2009

America’s Undeclared War On African American Trans Women


It’s not spoken of much, and gets an obscenely light, uncaring treatment in straight or GLBT press, much less being acknowledged by political leaders or law enforcement. But there’s a war going on out there, and black transgender women are the target. I’m not saying that it’s only black trans women facing frequent anti-trans – there are large number of latina transwomen as well – nor is it to say that trans men of color aren’t facing the same threats. But the reported killings compiled against all transgenders are showing a very notable disproportion of black trans women being the prime target of murder, especially in the U.S.

The Taysia Elzy incident in north Indianapolis’ Broad Ripple neighborhood is just the latest incident in a litany of deaths in the African-American trans community these past years. Any year is dangerous for anyone who is trans, and especially so for trans people of color. Yet this year has been especially brutal, and in virtually every incident reported also maddeningly brushed off as “probably not a hate crime” by law enforcement.

Now I’m not saying that there aren’t trans-women, especially people of color, who aren’t doing sex-work for survival because there are zero employment opportunities available to them. As a friend of mine, Monica Roberts, used to say, it’s the curse of “a triple minority – being woman, black and transgender.”

That said, it is also wholly inaccurate – as both the Indianapolis media and spokespeople for law enforcement have done – to paint every transwoman of color, especially black transwomen, as being “hookers” and then simply writing off their murders to “mitigating circumstances” of living “a dangerous lifestyle,” what with all the sex work, transgenderism and the seedy environs that “oldest profession” inhabits. This particular case treated the victim and her boyfriend as the seedy inhabitants, even though the two lived in a rather normal lifestyle with jobs and a home in a middle class neighborhood.

“We have lives, feelings and blood just like every other human being.” — trans activist and Stonewall Veteran, Sylvia Rivera after the death of Amanda Milan

Law enforcement, and oftentimes an ignorant media, has a very bad habit of writing off transwomen who work the streets as almost deserving of their murders due to the sex trade in general. It’s something they tend to do with any prostitute murders. However, many trans women of color tend to be conveniently swept into that presumption automatically – and quite inaccurately. The signs of this are plastered all over Taysia Elzy’s case and its media coverage.

Monica Roberts’ Transgriot Blog had this to say about the news coming from Elzy’s murder:

I'm sick of the Indy media using mug shots when there are photos of Taysia and Michael as a couple. … What Taysia's birth name was prior to the killing or whether she's had SRS or not is not germane to the fact that she and her boyfriend are now dead. Oh yeah … just because a bioman is dating a pre-op, post op (or ANY) transwoman, it doesn't make him gay.

Once again media peeps, and try to focus here. this is what your journalistic Bible, the AP Stylebook has to say about covering transgender people:

Transgender-Use the pronoun preferred by the individuals who have acquired the physical characteristics of the opposite sex or present themselves in a way that does not correspond with their sex at birth.

If that preference is not expressed, use the pronoun consistent with the way the individuals live publicly.
The other thing that's pissing me off is the nasty, racist and transphobic comments being posted by some peeps on the Indy Star comment threads covering the killings.

It didn't help that the Indy media posted the couple's mug shots early on in the coverage and some of them are still doing so despite having other photos available.

But I guess when you wish to paint the transsistah and African-Americans in the worst possible light, even in death, other photos don't matter.
Neither the police nor the media in Indianapolis can get beyond using Elzy’s male birth name, nor salaciously pointing out that “Avery” was living an “alternative lifestyle” – while posting arrest mug shots on TV. They can’t get beyond the controversy of the victims’ personal lives, and by their own inadvertent assistance, help create a default sympathy (or at least understanding the mindset) of the murderer!

This sends a distinct message to the transgender community about how the authorities and media view us, jading us towards any dealings with them. Worse, there is another more sublime message communicated to the community who views or reads these reports: these victims aren’t to be respected, their memories don’t need to be honored and they aren’t really as human nor their deaths as important as if it were a straight, white murder victim. This ham-handed treatment becomes indirectly complicit in ripping the humanity from the victims and in the process validating these acts by these murderers motivated by hate.

Taysia Elzy’s murder is just a current catalyst, but this is only the surface of the tip of the iceberg which runs very deep. Black transwomen have been the bulk of the hate crimes populating America’s list on the Remembering Our Dead website and the annual Day Of Remembrances held every year on November 20, memorializing the transgendered victims of hate-based murders. Now as the global economy sinks, more of the spontaneous, senseless violence will be acted out upon categories that are (to the perpetrators) convenient categories for their personal frustration and aggression. We’re staring at a perfect storm, a bloodbath that will especially hit transwomen of color.

“Their treatment of us strips us of our very humanity! Animals receive better treatment than Amanda Milan got!” — Vanessa Edwards Foster speaking at the Amanda Milan vigil in May, 2001


Back in the 80’s, over a decade before my own transition, I hung out with my crew back in Corpus Christi. We were the Skunks, or the Skunk Pack officially, and would hang out on The Slab: the epicenter of the old Leathers Projects in what was affectionately known as The Cut – Corpus’ version of Harlem or Watts or the Fifth Ward or Ninth Ward. Essentially it was the roughest of the rough. One of the things that both shocked and impressed me was one African American trans girl who would walk up Nueces Street, right through The Slab on her way up to “the streets” to “work” up in The Cut. She was not at all clandestine about it – quite open! Broad daylight, in the middle of the night while all of us were hanging out: nothing fazed her. She would walk right through to the cat-calls and yelled commentary from all the “street dawgs.”

To me, she was astonishing: first by knowing that that type of thing could not occur in any other side of town – the physical violence would’ve been immediate and serious (I’d have been killed doing that on North Beach!). Secondly was the incredible courage to even attempt that, much less muster up the chutzpah to do it, and to do so in one of the most dangerous areas of the city! That was brave beyond belief – or temerity in the face of terror, one of the two!

Of course the commentary would fly! Potts, our unofficial “lead dawg” (who resembled Mr. T without the gold chains or haircut and with more of a beer belly), would shout out, “Awright Miss Shawn!” (seemingly progressive, though it was uttered in attempt to get under her skin – not to acknowledge that she was female). There were other yelled comments from Potts and the others about “eating dat cum, ” “let me base in yo’ face” as well as the obligatory “faggot” comments. But they were always laughing and smiling, no one taking anything seriously, much less physical violence. Each of them were just trying to ruffle “Shawn’s” feathers, and she gamely tossing some zinging comebacks.

Folks in The Cut knew Shawn from growing up, and they all took it with a grain of salt. It left me, at that time, with an inaccurate sense that being trans was openly more easily accepted in the African-American community. After everything I’ve witnessed since transition, though, I’ve been disabused of that misimpression.

Trans women of color face some of the most aggressive violence from their own, most especially today. It almost seems there’s a more conservative push (maybe from religion?) in the African American community these days. While there is a commensurate segment of the African American community that is on “the down low” even though they eschew any connection to being gay, transwomen don’t have that surreptitious luxury. They’re more known, and tend to be the highly visible and most easily targeted receivers of all the aggression towards “gay” (as a concept) in the black community. So for officers-on-the-beat looking to clear items out of their “in-box,” writing cases off as “hookers with pissed off johns” conveniently clears their dockets, and require little to any investigation. Tag their toes, move ‘em down the processing line – next!

Meanwhile, nothing is done about the root cause of this violence.

We finally have a man of color coming to the White House this session, and hopefully an opportunity to address and pass a fully comprehensive Hate Crimes Act that also finally adds and monitors statistics on anti-transgender murders. If we could only dream, maybe we can encourage President Obama to use his bully pulpit to go further and address the mitigating issue – lack of employment opportunities – that leads so many transwomen into the sex trade and into danger.

But will our political leaders use this opportunity for change?

“In real life, you can't get a job as an executive unless you have the educational background and the opportunity. Now the fact that you are not an executive is merely because of the social standing of life... Black people have a hard time getting anywhere. And those that do, are usually straight.” — Dorian Corey, from the movie “Paris Is Burning.”


America’s Undeclared War On African American Trans Women
This past fall at Fantasia Fair, a friend expressed concerns that were eating at her. She’s a crossdresser who works at a national electronics retailer, and was privy to discussions of her African-American co-workers who were monitoring and expressing their opinions on “America’s Top Model” – and specifically the transsexual model, Isis, who was a prominent character on the show.

My friend “Michelle” noted the conversations surrounding Isis as harrowing. The co-workers, all African-American in this incident, noted “his” (Isis’) “deceptive” looks – a bit too passable (perhaps attractive?). Michelle also noted how they mused about the best way to “take care” of this: a few more of these [Amanda Milan] type of incidents to “send a message to the rest of” the community (trans, and presumably the ‘down low’ community) about “what happens” when they do this in a “public” fashion. To these potential perpetrators, it’s about image, it’s about racial pride, and it’s about paranoia of anything that undermines this in their estimation. It’s possible it could even about questioning their own selves.

Per Michelle’s retelling they swore that, “Once we have enough of these [hate-based incidents] happening, they’ll get the message. We won’t have this … anymore.”

Well, we’ve heard the message. That message sucks. It’s especially infuriating coming from others who have also suffered at the hands of prejudice and violence to then turn around and have no problem thinking in that same mindset. Men in all communities, African-American and otherwise, need to begin a dialogue about getting beyond their phobias and the paranoid reactions they have on people do not pose a threat – especially a physical threat. Homophobia and transphobia of all types needs to cease immediately – even if we have to throw the book at those who commit these acts.

This war will not stand!

“We will never tolerate the hatred that other communities direct toward us.” — trans activist and Stonewall Veteran, Sylvia Rivera

Simply Black in White Fashion Trends in Spring/Summer 2009

White is the sum of all other colors in the spectrum, reflects light and is considered a summer color. Wearing white keeps you cool and contrasts bright colors of spring and summer nicely.

The color of darkness is undoubtedly the most popular color in fashion. A man wearing black suggests elegance, authority and power. Black clothing also conveys neatness, simplicity and great versatility.
That's right, if you are observance enough, both white and black are the colors for 2009 Spring/Summer color themes.




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Friday, January 2, 2009

My Predictions For 2009


Yeah, this is kind of a fluff piece, sorta. Again, I’m not much of a person to sit down and write a blog like it’s my personal diary. There’s plenty of diary blogs around with other T folk discussing how their day at work went, or what they did or their pets did today, or other personal sentiments about things I’m doing or experiencing, etc. That’s something that would make me feel self-centered – just my personal quirk.

However, I did break with that right before Christmas and started writing about more personal stuff (it was a brutal holiday season, sorry), and had a lot of comments (both the complimentary and those worrying). Over the years, I’ve been pretty good at following the patterns on things, so I figured I’d do a personal take on what I foresee based on the trends. Keep in mind, these are purely unscientific – essentially guesstimates. So here are my predictions:

“Never make predictions, especially about the future!” — baseball manager, Casey Stengel

The Obama Administration will do a remarkably solid job (a sincere break from the past eight years). He will help push a number of things through Congress, but a solid core of Republicans will begin trying to discipline their members to stand uniformly in opposition to Democrats – not because it’s bad legislation, but because it benefits the Democrat brand. They will also be extremely obstructionist at Obama’s court picks, even to the point of filibustering to stop all legislative progress. Moderates John McCain and Olympia Snowe will attempt to quash this, but McCain will eventually decide to retire instead of re-run and Snowe will end up having to fend off a GOP-spurred opponent. Democrats will have to stand firm to fight off complete governmental breakdown. The Obama White House will also become increasingly annoyed with what they feel is petulance from the gay and lesbian leadership as the first year of the term unfolds.

On GLBT legislation, both Hate Crimes and the Employment Non Discrimination Act (ENDA) will pass both Houses of Congress near the end of the year or soon after, and end up on Pres. Obama’s desk. The Hate Crimes will be inclusive of gender identity. Barney Frank will feign trying to include “people with transgender” in ENDA, but will let his cold feet get to him and work to push through the non inclusive separate bills – one passing, the other for trans, dying in committee. Ol’ Barn’ will attempt to use the Hate Crimes passage and his hire of Diego Sanchez (the first trans person on Congress staff) as political cover. It won’t work, and Barney really won’t care anyway.

On other GLBT, Mara Keisling (if not the entirety of NCTE) and HRC will again begin working “collaboratively” in an effort to raise Mara’s visibility once again, and to try to damage control the public relations damage HRC self-inflicted this past year. This will create dissension and maybe a couple private defections from NCTE’s board. Mara will become more impatient with working with trans people and will quietly move more towards lesbians as replacements for the board and staffing decisions. Once this knowledge hits the community, there will be further uproar.

Meanwhile, HRC will not participate in the “report card” threat in lobbying Congress this session. They will, however, privately (possibly in conjunction with Mara) give blessings on moving the sexual orientation ENDA (basically a SONDA) forward. They will also circle their wagons and continue fending off the outside trans groups, maybe trying to increase the distance between them. Before the year is up, there will be one more trans defection from HRC, though not necessarily because of the ENDA push.

The trans community, and increasingly more of the gay, lesbian and bi community not part of the entitled and empowered parts of the gay and lesbian movement will become increasingly hostile towards HRC, even while both NCTE & HRC try to repair the split. This will eventually spill over to all of the big-budget Washington organizations. The noticed move of even grassroots groups toward the high-dollar black-tie events for fundraising purposes will create a greater chasm between the grassroots and the controlling organizations.

As the marriage push continues to fumble along, more states will begin collecting signatures for statewide votes banning marriage as it’s the one issue that cash-strapped conservative advocacy groups know they can offer up and still pull in funding. As the move continues forward, there will also be increasing restiveness and desire from trans people to separate ourselves from GLBT. This along with the disenchantment of the rank-and-file grassroots GLBT folk will create a hostile environment for other GLBT groups beyond HRC.

High profile trans activist Donna Rose will be hired in a prominent position in a big GLBT group in a vain attempt to quell acrimony and distinguish themselves from the rest of the pack of orgs. It’ll only work to paint the group as cynical reactive placation and attempting to manipulate the situation. This break by the outsider masses will begin to catalyze on or around Pride Month – recapturing the original spirit on the 40th anniversary of Stonewall Rebellion.

I’ll also go out on a limb and predict that attorney Shannon Minter will leave NCLR and take a job somewhere in either the Obama Administration or in Congress (more likely the Senate). He’ll be our second trans man, and the highest level trans person hired in government.

In entertainment circles, there will be a number of transgender autobiographies and novels in the coming year. There will also be at least one or two film documentaries that will capture a lot of attention beyond the GLBT circle. Twenty-year old model and club-kid Izzy Hilton (a self-described “boy who hires out as a female model”) will burn out near year end and end up in rehab for stint, including a brief respite from the club scene, but will re-enter with more measured approach, moderating the partying, and will come out as trans in the years to come (if not this year). Proliferation of trans rock groups, musical artists with releases in the coming year. Out transgender musicians will have a higher profile this year than ever in our previous history, if not necessarily critical accolades or sales success … yet.

The American economy will pick up briefly during the early/mid first year of the Obama administration, then sink back again, even worse this time. There will be even more, larger economic bombshells including a major scandal about the Wall Street “bailout” for banks and what happened to money. In the end, large portions of the $350 billion will not be accounted for, creating a lot of energy ferreting out the culprits – though they will likely never find them, much less prosecute.

We’ll revisit another edition of the “black tag” migration a la the 1980’s (for those unfamiliar with the term, it was called black tag, because most of the folks moving down were from Michigan, who had black license plates with white lettering). Again we’ll replay the movement of many of the Michigan and other states in the rust belt region down to the south, particularly Texas. And again, I fear they’ll be coming down looking for the employment cornucopia which is, even as I write, already evaporating down here. Nevertheless, Texas and the southern economies are still an improvement over the economic disaster in Ohio, Michigan, Indiana and other states bleeding red ink and hemorrhaging jobs.

This movement will also change the political map, as more of the previous northern working-class Democrats find new roots in the red-meat, corporate elite south. This will cause a political shift in the previously blood red south, and the few Republicans remaining will turn on each other as maps shift, and positioning to remain on shrinking pieces of red turf commences.

Economic stress will also wipe out some of the smaller charitable organizations and incite others to merge in order to survive. Especially on the gay and lesbian advocacy front, this redundant “organization for every mood” environment we’ve seen over the years where new non-profits spring up like mushrooms after a rain will end up reducing itself by necessity. In one sense it will be more efficient. In another sense, it will also become increasingly more “corporate” and self-fulfill the prophecy of the outsiders who scream of the increasing distance and insularity from these groups professing to represent them.

It will also help fuel a move toward more smaller, informal grassroots organizations proliferating without the offices or the bloated obligations requiring the three-figure a plate dinners and star-bedazzled preening for bucks. The newer groups will be the targets of another new move in non-profits: micro-funding which seeks out groups that provide high bang for relatively lower buck.

Foreclosures will increase greatly over the coming year, and continue throughout. The billions put forth early last summer to keep home loans from falling into foreclosure will save precious few loans next year (zero have been worked out to date), and will fall way short of the billion-dollars price tag paid. That will become part of the above “bailout” scandal. Other investment scandals similar to the Madoff one will be discovered, though none approaching the level of that infamous one. And Bernie Madoff will never see a day of jail time, and will die before ever being convicted – another Ken Lay.

Speaking of deaths, more individuals who are called and compelled to testify in charges brought on the Bush / Cheney Administration will die in suspicious circumstances. People will brush it off as mere Clinton-era murder conspiracy heresy, though a number of blogger sleuths will sift through and begin connecting dots. Regardless of how much is eventually discovered, no one will have the stomach for bringing forth charges as they don’t want to be painted as being like the histrionic Republicans circa Clinton impeachment. If Dick Cheney is ever compelled to testify, he will have a heart attack that is fatal this time.

Texas Gov. Rick Perry, and I believe Karl Rove will eventually be outed from their closets, though they’ll fight it avidly. It will finally cost the Texas governor both his governorship and his ever-so-tenuous marriage. Rove will fight it all the way down, even when Jeff Gannon comes out and disputes him. Ironically George W. Bush will not be outed, and will continue living his life in ignorant bliss.

Oil prices will continue falling for some time to come. This will create economic strains in the previously-oil rich Arab states. As a result of the falling revenue and increasing desperation and restive populace, Iran will unfortunately act aggressively at some point during the year, will embargo oil shipments to the West and will create problems for shipments through the Straits of Hormuz. The U.S. will end up having a new, more ominous hotspot to deal with, overshadowing even the Israel-Palestine skirmish (which will continue).

Somali pirates will also compound the problem (possibly with Iranian help), and later this year oil, gasoline and heating fuel prices will again spike upward. This will continue exacerbating already struggling economies across the globe (save for oil producing nations and individually with corporate Big Oil, who will make up for lost ground over the previous year). Europe's economy will falter badly, as will Australia and most nations in Latin America. Venezuela, still pissed off at the Bush-Cheney era, will use this to continue wooing struggling economies in South America to turn away from America (who can’t help them during our own economic malaise).

China, also suffering its own economic woes will sell off bonds, stocks and gold invested in U.S. to shore up their economy. This will create an even worse market situation than we’ve seen to date across the globe. As they do so, and begin righting their own economic ship, they’ll begin working with Iran and other nations to try to stake out a large swath of the petroleum production. While we’re in a current lull, the need for breaking the addiction to oil will become apparent in late 2009, and unfortunately America (esp. areas with inadequate public transportation in the south and west) will be woefully unprepared.

After China’s sell-off, U.S. and most other nations’ currencies will weaken badly and inflation will take off like the Nixon-Ford era of the 1970’s. As our economy worsens, we’ll see something not witnessed in decades: many more protests, particularly of employers and corporations. There will be a rise in spontaneous workplace violence, and indeed violence will increase across the board. There will be an unfortunate rise in snap violence against symbolic targets and individuals, and I see a spike of that targeting GLBT people.

Rubbing salt in that wound, a number of major cities will be found to have been suppressing their murder rate numbers, affecting reported numbers on both protected and non-protected class murder numbers. Folks will lose faith in law enforcement and the court system as a result.

This will be a productive and hope-inspiring year as we all begin working as a community and eschewing, ostracizing and isolating the wealthy and wealth-lusting wannabes. The Reagan cum Bush era of “greed-is-good,” “let-me-display-my-power,” and self-consumed, imperious hubris are no longer heroic nor attractive qualities. That halcyon is now complete. In fashionista terms, “Poor is the new Black” for this coming season, and many more to follow. There’s a lot of roll-up-your-sleeves work with little of the spotlight and no showered riches to follow. Expect to see a lot of grunge style clothing, no “bling,” kitschy out-of style skirts and evening wear, flannel shirts, tees and jackets, holy-kneed jeans, patches, worn out shoes maybe with holes (if our President can be photographed with them, then it’s good enough for us). It’s a bohemian era now.

Expect to see a lot of older, sturdy cars on the road, fixed up and rolling. In fact, a lot of the “old” things that may have been long ago forgotten will now become the new “thing.” People will be pulling out their throwbacks (whether jerseys, music albums and turntables, furniture, books, old movies, even old board games). The solid and proven – the originals – will overshadow the new and flashier, and people will move away from having to have the newest of everything. We’ll also be recapturing some of our historic spirit (even in the guise of protests). So all you castaways out there, hang on – your time is coming back!

And for my last prediction, we may see our first 8-8 NFL team make it to a Super Bowl. My beloved San Diego Chargers come into the playoffs with the worst record amongst all, having been 4-8 at one point, but also come in as one of the hottest teams going. They’ll be playing the current hottest team in the league, Indianapolis, but in San Diego. So, I’ll predict the Colts, and the Titans will both be looking beyond the Chargers (not taking them seriously) and will lose. Getting beyond the Steelers in Pittsburgh is also possible, as they did so before on an AFC championship. Unfortunately, I don’t think Pittsburgh will be taking them as lightly, knowing the history. But there’s a chance they can pull it off!

San Diego going up against New York Giants (with the very same Eli Manning who demanded to be traded to New York after San Diego drafted him) would be a great grudge match! So there are my prognostications, take them for what you will … we’ll see how accurate I am this weekend when the Colts visit San Diego. Charge!

“They're gonna find the Queen is a man but that Philip don't care
(I predict)
Lassie will prove that Elvis and her had a fleeting affair
(I predict) ….
They're gonna stop Saturday night, so you better have fun now
(I predict)
They're gonna stop having the sun, so you better get tan now
(I predict)” — I Predict, the Sparks

Man Travel: Travel with Style Part II

In my previous post, I shared about travel with style, what essential wears to bring, today I will share with you other important travel tips.


Build the layers
Layer the bottom of your case with all crushable items to build up a flat base.

Keep Your Pants Uncreased Lay your pants together over the flat base so that half of the pant is in the case and the remainder is hanging out of the case. Fill inn the rest of the case and before closing, fold in the rest of your pants so they are never quite folded in half.


Save Your Dry Cleaning Bags Pack your shirts in dry-cleaning bags to minimize the need to iron. Dry cleaning bags can be the traveler's best friend. They reduce many wrinkles that a suitcase can create in your garments.


Packing a Jacket is Simple If you don't have a suit pack to minimize wrinkles. Let not worry, you can lay your jacket with the hem against one end of your suitcase and fold it over closer to the shoulder. Ironing and your body heat will take care of any wrinkles that may occur.

Invest in a Suit Pack To avoid any hassles of having to re-iron everything when you reach your destination, the best is to invest a suit pack!!


Get a Wet Pack Why is that so? To put all shampoos, skin care and any other small traveling bottle in this traveling wet pack. This will save you from a major blow out if any of the bottles leaks in your bag.

Keep all the Important Pieces with You Pack all your travel documents, money, essential clothing like cardigan, T-shirt (minimal) and medicines in your carry bag. If your luggage lost in transit, no matter how long for, will then not be a complete disaster.


Ties Extend a Traveling Wardrobe A change of tie can completely transform your outfit and your look. It is easy to carry and simple way to appear to have an extensive wardrobe even if you do keep wearing the same suit.

Toilet Bag is What you Need If you travel often, get a separate toilet bag with all necessary toiletry items. There is nothing worse than getting to your destination only to realize you have left your toothbrush, toothpaste or deodorant behind.


Lastly, remember to pack clothing which co-ordinates. This way, if one item is soiled you can replace it quickly with another top or bottom without having to carry a whole second outfit. Em..I think I cover most of the important aspects.


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Thursday, January 1, 2009

A Trans Political Reflection And Goodbye To 2008

The New Year is upon us and it’s time for both reflection and looking ahead. It’s been a truly uplifting and historic year for us. We worked on and witnessed America elect its first non-white male President ever, Barack Obama! For the transgender community, we actually had a very active hand in participating in and seeing this come to fruition!

“Should old acquaintance be forgot, and never brought to mind?” — Auld Lang Syne, Robert Burns

A number of our community’s leadership participated in the Obama Transgender Steering Committee, including names like Pauline Park, Donna Rose, Donna Cartwright and Marti Abernathey (Marti of course became the first trans delegate from Indiana – and for Obama). Even on the LGBT Advisory Committee post-election, we had a prominent, well-respected trans leader, Marsha Botzer, involved and likely a big part of what eventually became the announced Executive Order on federal hiring by the upcoming Administration: the first *ever* to explicitly prevent discrimination based on gender identity or expression!

The Obama campaign even drew me back into the game. From working the precincts and the Montrose bar run with locals and even out-of-state trans folks like Washington state’s Rebekah Lee (who made the trip down for the campaign) and having to chair a near-riot crowd of nearly 400 at our precinct convention to elect our precinct’s delegates, to our senate district fight, to our state convention fight. Eventually the struggle won me a surprise return trip to Denver and the Democratic National Convention as an Obama delegate, and participating in our largest ever transgender delegation: six delegates and two committee members in all! One of the committee members, Diego Sanchez of Boston MA, set history by being the first trans person elected to the DNC Platform Committee – an important first! Both delegate Laura Calvo from Portland OR, and trans attorney Shannon Minter of NCLR were chosen to sit in the special “inner circle” during the final night of the Democratic Convention – again firsts!

Even the Houston GLBT Political Caucus got into the act! In a stunning surprise to many, the transgender-led, and trans majority screening committee defied the Houston Stonewall Democrats and two of Houston’s most out elected lesbian officials in endorsing Obama! Even without my input, Houston’s trans leaders knew the difference between Hillary Clinton’s incrementalism and Obama’s history of supporting inclusive legislation.

Even after my layoff on Halloween, it provided me opportunity to take a bus trip from Houston to Dayton, Ohio to work a critical area in red-meat southwest Ohio – the very city which was home to one of the notable 2004 controversies regarding vote counts done in partisan fashion behind closed doors with no observers allowed. The “busload” from Houston was notorious throughout Dayton – even the other volunteers had heard about us – and we took a tough trip and energy-draining schedule and made change we could believe in! After Pennsylvania was called for Obama, the television pundits all stated whichever of the battleground states went first – Florida, Virginia, North Carolina or Ohio – that state would put Obama over the top.

Ohio was the first state of those battlegrounds that went Obama – and the roar was deafening! Even more uproarious was when they broke down Ohio by counties and they showed that our turf, Montgomery County, went blue – the only county in southwest Ohio that went blue! We helped create change!

“We two have run about the slopes and picked the daisies fine;
But we’ve wandered many a weary foot since auld lang syne.” — Auld Lang Syne, Robert Burns


We also finally saw a notable and collective trend shift in the transgender community, away from being “tempered and measured” and working “collaboratively” with “our (so called) allies” in the Human Rights Campaign (HRC). It was just over a year ago that Meredith Bacon, Board Chair of the National Center for Transgender Equality (NCTE) sent out a letter to a number of trans leaders vowing that they “would not be working with HRC in the foreseeable future,” and even shocking many with the tenor of the letter in blatantly calling it an “elite” movement geared toward white gay males. Later, a couple more NCTE board members, Donna Cartwright and Steve Glassman, wrote a similar letter pulling back a bit from Bacon’s tone, but still reiterating not working with HRC in the foreseeable future.

These, along with the eventual departures from HRC’s Business Council of longtime members Donna Rose and Jamison Green cemented in the collective community what had been seen and spoken of only by the old-line activists circa the Bill Clinton era: HRC was not to be trusted. While the old-line “heretics” among us are still marginalized and stifled by the “HRC-hater” neophytes, it’s at least a comfort to know the sentiments on HRC are uniform throughout most all the trans community.

Sadly, it doesn’t necessarily mean we’re more unified. Ironically, it’s now more fractured (ah, the magic of HRC!) Now it’s the original old-line “HRC-Haters” who won’t show deference to the neophyte “HRC-Haters” who resent both the old-line heretics and the newer HRC Moths who can’t resist, nor stand to be away from the limelight! But the upside is that the numbers (at least for the time being) that blast HRC for being their natural selves is much louder and larger.

During the course of the 110th congressional session, another first – the historic Matthew Shepard Hate Crimes Act with trans inclusive language passed the House and Senate, only to get bottled up after it was attached to the Iraq War funding bill. Meanwhile the ignominious ENDA stripped of its original trans-inclusive language, also passed the House. Both Barney Frank and HRC pulled a fast one, coming up with a snap poll of some type (no details nor data were ever presented) that showed 70% of the gay and lesbian community supported passing the non-inclusive ENDA rather than waiting for an inclusive bill.

After the ENDA debacle, Ol’ Barn’ (at the urging of Rep. Tammy Baldwin of Wisconsin) worked with Rep. Rob Andrews of NJ to convene a transgender panel testimony on employment before a Congressional Sub-Committee. Diane Schroer, Sabrina Marcus Taraboletti, and again Shannon Minter and Diego Sanchez set history in participating in the panel.

On more contrary notes, 31 trans people were memorialized at this year’s Day of Remembrance, with Memphis TN becoming the newest trans violence hotspot.

Worse, HRC continued sniffing around and nibbling at the edges on co-opting hate murders of transgenders (with an eye ever towards the fundraising potential for themselves). Not only were there reports around individuals like Angie Zapata in Colorado, but even plans to co-sponsor one plan to hold a “post vigil party” following Day of Remembrance at a night club to benefit a gay youth center, but even a prominent member of HRC staff calling and attempting to insert HRC into the Day of Remembrance planning for next year! They smell green in that red, see the trans community is not taking advantage of the opportunity, and have an eight-figure annual budget that will never be enough.

Worse still, even a couple other LGBT groups are beginning to sniff around the event as well. Everyone needs money, except apparently transgenders or trans groups in their opinion! Funds have become tight these days.

“We two have paddled in the stream from morning sun till dine;
But seas between us broad have roared since auld lang syne.” — Auld Lang Syne, Robert Burns


Indeed, the financial collapse has had an effect on many of us as well as the rest of the nation. With this collapse (which I didn’t find out about until days later due to no electricity after Hurricane Ike), many in America are losing jobs and losing homes. As a result, donations to all charities have dwindled to a sprinkle in a sun-baked drought.

This is taking an especially difficult toll on the trans community. Homelessness is becoming more common and as trans people all know, finding shelter as transgenders is virtually impossible save for a few isolated locales. A week before Christmas, longtime homeless trans-advocate and perennial mayoral candidate Jennifer Gale of Austin died of exposure while sleeping on a park bench in front of a local church on a freezing night. With jobs evaporating, federal, state and local budgets being slashed to the bone and even the bone itself being whittled down drastically, the forecast for this being addressed is bleak at best.

Another ominous bit of news is the Bush Administration’s seeming scorched earth campaign on other issues besides the bankrupting of the economy. They weren’t able to kill of Social Security, but they have been doing what they can on other policy changes away from Congress such as allowing relaxation of restrictions on corporate pollution in the oceans and near national park land for instance.

On the trans community front, though, the health connotations are rather harrowing. News came out during the DNC in Denver that the Health and Human Services (HHS) Dept. had enacted a “Provider Conscience” policy for federally-funded hospitals and health care facilities. It sounds innocuous, but it means that if a hospital or health professional feels treating an individual is against their moral conscience, they don’t have to treat them. As Asst. Sec. of Health Joxel Garcia put it, “health care providers shouldn’t have to check their conscience at the hospital door.” For women, it means more than abortions, but birth control (even in case of rape or incest) may be denied legally if the provider feels it’s against their morals. For trans people, it means any trans hormone replacement therapy or cosmetic surgery may be denied if the treating physician feels it offends his beliefs. (www.hhs.gov/news/press/2008pres/08/20080821a.html)

Think of the implications if, say, a Southern Baptist decides someone with full-blown AIDS was deserving of it and denied treatment. It could be conceivable for a hospital owned by Christian Scientists to deny medication to someone suffering from post-traumatic shock after an accident, or even a doctor converted to Jehovah’s Witness who refuses to prescribe anything more than prayer for a patient suffering from flesh-eating bacteria. Regardless of Hippocratic Oath, this provides legal cover now for health providers to deny treatment. It’s conceivable that some physicians could choose to not violate their conscience by providing medical care to another race, or deny medical care to others of a religion different (and thus heretical) to their own beliefs. This is a real game-changer on a number of levels, especially for those living in smaller cities and towns where health care choices are limited.

This takes effect two days before Inauguration Day.
But on a final upbeat note, our first out transgender, Diego Sanchez, has been hired to work as a congressional staffer on Capitol Hill. After many decades and hundreds (if not thousands) of gay and lesbian staffers even up to the highest levels on the Hill, the first trans person has finally broken through that seemingly plexiglass ceiling and landed employment with a member of congress. The only downside: it’s in Rep. Barney Frank’s office. Knowing Ol’ Barn’ as we do, we’re certain there’s “strategery” (as Bush-baby would say it) afoot in his selection.

Nevertheless, Diego has again set history – hearty congratulations on that! And for those of us who have been lobbying Congress (as have I) for over the past decade plus, actually having a trans person in one of the offices there on Capitol Hill is a welcome sight indeed.

Here’s hoping for a productive 2009!

“And surely you’ll buy your pint cup! And surely I’ll buy mine!
And we'll take a cup o’ kindness yet, for auld lang syne.” — Auld Lang Syne, Robert Burns